We all lie. The degrees of lies are what distinguish us.
There are the lies you tell when someone asks you "how much do you weigh?" or "what is your IQ?" or "what was your LSAT score?" For the record, I don't know my current IQ. I haven't been tested since I was in grade school.
Then there are the lies that people tell that rise to the Ponzi scheme level, the "I didn't kill her, but if I did here's how I would have done it" level, and the "the Holocaust never happened" lies.
Obviously, there is an endless wasteland in between.
So I went online tonight to see if my new affection interest had, in fact, deleted his online profile as he told me he had. Low and behold, it was right there, smack dab on the page when I searched. Not only was it there, but he logged on yesterday. Hmm...
I'm not sure how to handle the situation. You know, as lawyers, we are trained to somewhat cut off our emotions and check them at the door in exchange for a clean look at the evidence. A "just the facts, ma'am" kind of approach. Then again, especially as a plaintiff's lawyer, I believe in telling a holistic story including all the human details.
So riddle me this: Do I confront him on (1) having the profile up, and/or (2) signing in as recently as yesterday?
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I say neither. Don't even bother. It's not worth your time. If you do call him out, it'll just make it look like you care too much.
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